There are a small number of books I aim to read at least once a year. These books aren’t necessarily the best of the best, but they are those that speak to an issue of perennial importance in my life and ministry.

One such book is Sam Crabtree’s Practicing Affirmation. Because I am innately prone to criticism more than encouragement I continually need to be reminded of my need to grow in God-centered affirmation.

FOR THE CRANKS

I fully resonate with what Piper says in the foreword,

Sam’s book is a healing balm for cranks, misfits, and malcontents who are so full of self they scarcely see, let alone celebrate, the simple beauties of imperfect virtue in others. Or to say it differently: I need this book.

The absence of affirmation for God’s handiwork in his people is also a kind of sacrilege—for at least three reasons.

First, it is disobedience to God’s command, “A woman who fears the Lord is to be praised” (Prov. 31:30). And I can’t think of any reason this does not apply in principle to God-fearing men.

Second, it demeans Jesus as though he were stooping to do something unworthy when he says, “Well done, good and faithful servant” (Matt. 25:21, 23). If he says it, should we consider it beneath us to say it?

Third, all the works of God are worthy of praise. And there is no good in anyone but by the work of God (1 Cor. 4:7; 15:10j).

It gets deeper. Sam says, “The best affirmation is rooted not only in the character of God but in the gospel.” Which means that every glimmer of good in the life of God’s children is blood-bought. Jesus died to make it possible. What does it say about us if he died to bring it about, and we don’t consider it worth praising? That is, to say it again, I need this book.

FOR THE PASTOR

Pastors are God’s pace-setters in matters of godliness. And it’s no different in the area of God-glorifying affirmation. So, if you are like me and find yourself more likely to critique than encourage, read this book. It may just end up on your own list of “Read It Once a Year.”